CHILD SUPPORT!!! This system inevitably has to be revamped, rethought, thrown away. Is this justice or is this a formality?

Child support....

There is a certain question in my mind that brings this thought to attention.....and the fact that it is a question that absolutely boggles my mind.  Why on earth do mothers that have a father that assists mentally, physically and monetarily feel that they still have a right to file for child support.  Let me speak from experience. A father takes his child for the entire summer, on weekends, every holiday, every school break, takes the child to the doctor, picks them up when they are sick, buys all school clothes, participates in every birthday, stocks the tree for christmas, always provides when the child is in need.  But technically the child lives with the mother, do you agree that this father should have to pay child support...short of the child living with him during the week, should he be forced to pay this support in addition to what he is already doing.  The court will of course say yes, but not without a battle from the father, but the end result is almost always, you WILL pay child support.  This type of unfairness and need or urge to get back at this father through our malfunctioning child support system needs to be changed.  This system inevitably has to be revamped, rethought, thrown away.  Is this justice or is this a formality? A belief that if a mother files for whatever her background reason may be, that a father is not participating in his Childs life.  What about the fact that the women who are the exes, spiteful, ignorant, bitter, full of anger, have an ultimatum, a vendetta because they are no longer an intricate part of this mans life.  The women that want to assure that this man and his new family relationships and lifestyle suffer for the main reason, of, I can, with no real background or lack of support that can be warranted.  Some of these women just want money and want to join the child support group...The yeah girl, I had to put him on that child support... I t my check or my debit on the 14th, or the daddy basher, no baby, i can't get that right now, cause your daddy didn't pay his child support, even though he is the one that bought all those summer clothes that yo didn't actually tell the child that HE bought..... What in the world is going on in these demented eyes of these hateful women.  The baby mamas that continuously degrade the father that is trying.....Where is the justice for the father that actually does take care of his child or children?  Can there be justice for this type of man?  The situation is truly not unheard of and constantly occurs, but our men are caged and backed into a corner that they can not escape.  This is the direct cause of anger, retribution, hatred, feelings of betrayal for the father who is trying to do right.  What you do to people, will return to you ten fold. The system unfortunately is set up for our men to fail...all men, why i ask?  Why is child support such an exorbitant amount of money that obviously cant be paid by the pennies that jobs are paying today...so the painful reality is......the man is unable to pay child support, he then gets a backlash on his credit, he tries to drive do to a suspended license, he loses his business license, he cant get a passport, and then he ultimately goes to jail.  So, how are you going to collect ANY money from a man that can't work because he can't drive, or he tries to drive to work to pay child support and support himself, family, other children or whatever.  He then loses his business license if applicable, so he can't work, then when he can't work he gets arrested, goes to jail, he has a record, he has to pay fines, all with the money that he can't make because of a stupid baby mama and a screwed up child support system.  Please note:  I am in no way dissuading the fact that there are a majority of absent and non existent and voluntarily removed from their children's lives, that is not today's thought, but that too WILL be addressed in the near future.